Thursday, December 14, 2006

Pray for my brother...

Well, very sad news just hit me like a brick in the face. My brother's wife has filed for divorce. Divorce. I can't even believe it. Shock. Numb. Hurt. Angry. Sad. Disbelief. Grief. Horror. Hurt. Shock. No, no, no!

He loves her. He still wants to work it out. She filed -- she has made up her mind.

I have always considered myself blessed -- my brothers married great women. This makes me so sad. How can things remain the same with her and I, when things are like this with them? I don't want to be angry at her, but I am. I don't want to shut her out of my life, but how could she do this to him? He is my brother. I am on his side. She told him she didn't want things to change between her and our family. How can they not? He is being mature. I must be mature.
I respect my brother. I love my brother. I am so sad for him. To lose our Mom to cancer suddenly a year and half ago and now to lose his wife divorce. His fricking dog died of cancer last month.

Please pray for my brother.

He is a good man.

He is a good father.

He deserves better.

Depression sucks.

2 comments:

Pamela said...

what a sad Christmas holiday suprise.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your brother.

Hang in there!

Carrie