Hubby Update

So, Hubby met with my Dad yesterday to go over his resume and pick Dad's brain for ideas. It seems to have gone well. The hope is that one of two things happens: 1. Dad realizes what a gem Hubby is and hires him to replace me. 2. Dad gives great advice and watches for leads for Hubby (with the eventual result of gainful employment).

My Hubby was initially excited about the meeting but got nervous at the last minute. As I returned home I saw that hubby was heading over to the meeting in track pants, running shoes, and a sweatshirt. I sent him back in the house to put on khaki pants and a shirt. Hello. If you want a professional job you have to LOOK like a professional. Business casual is enough.... What the hell was Hubby thinking? I felt bad, but I when sent him back in the house to change. We talked about it and he gets it now. How did he NOT get it before?

Sometimes I wonder... Nothing will break if you don't look ready and play the part you want. If Hubby wants to be thought of as a professional he needs to look like one! DUH! He used to dress decently. I think last summer's stay at home dad time must have melted his brain. My goodness, my head still hurts. I was relieved when my Dad called last night (after the meeting) and left a message for my Hubby to email his resume after the updates they discussed. I will continue to pray. Boy does my head hurt... I wish I could do this for him. I wish he had a greater sense of urgency. Depression sucks. Hubby is not who he has always been. I see flashes of him... I want him back.